Message to the NJCU Community in Solemn Reflection and Remembrance of the Tragedy of October 7, 2023

Today marks a somber anniversary as we recognize one year since the terrorist attack on Israel — the worst attack that nation has ever faced — that killed more than 1,200 mostly young people and saw 251 others kidnapped. That attack sparked a year of horror and heartbreaking tragedies endured by tens of thousands. The images and accounts of the immense suffering of the innocent people in the region and the fear and trauma of those in our communities that distance does not quell calls on us to live the love the world so desperately needs. 

In the midst of this turmoil, we must remember the resilience of the human spirit and the deep yearning for peace and dignity that transcends borders.

We know the events of October 7 — and the agony that has followed — has deeply impacted many of you in our community. In times of pain, it’s crucial to remember our shared humanity. As we mark this dark anniversary, we do so with compassion, understanding, and a commitment to peace. No global act of terror nor any international conflict will ever undermine the unity and inclusivity our campus empowers. We will always stand in solidarity with every individual that chooses to unfold a chapter of their lives on our campus. There is no place in our community for antisemitism, Islamophobia, or violence. At NJCU, we will always champion our diversity. 

Today’s anniversary, and the weeks ahead, may evoke difficult emotions. Furthermore, October 10 is World Mental Health Day. We cannot continue to brush aside feelings that are so deeply personal yet so universally experienced. We rarely acknowledge the burdens we carry; let alone the burdens others carry. Celebrate the courage to ask for help. We are here for you. 

My young children recently retaught me that when they asked me to read to them Charlie Mackesy’s “The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse.” In that story a notable passage moved me so much that I’m compelled to share it with you. The young boy is asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” and he responds, “kind.” In this world, there are few greater things to aspire to be than to be kind and loving. Intellectual pursuits and physical triumphs should always first yield to a compassionate heart. They give us greater purpose. 

Please know that during this painful anniversary — or for any reason during the year — services are available to any student or employee coping with grief. NJCU provides a variety of pathways for students to receive wellness services and resources. Please visit the NJCU Counseling Center services to find the best option for you. Whether in-person with any of our NJCU counselors, online through our partners at Uwill, or peer-to-peer through our partners at Talk Campus, we are here for you. The Uwill service is available to anyone — student, faculty, or staff — with an NJCU email address. You may also visit the NJCU Counseling Center in the Gilligan Student Union (Room 308) or contact the Center at 201-200-3165 or via email at counselingcenter@njcu.edu. 

Our ability to change the world starts with championing the people in our own community and how we treat one another every day. Let us work towards a future where dialogue prevails over conflict and empathy guides our actions. Together, we can build bridges of hope, fostering a world where every voice is heard, and every life is valued.

Yours in service with admiration and affection,

Andrés Acebo
Interim President
New Jersey City University